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[prozac7674]

I'm a junior in highschool and i haven't really gotten into the whole hooking up or dating thing. During my first two years of highschool, i started figuring out who i was and where i wanted to go. I finally feel like ive gotten my life in order and a lot more optimisstic about things in general. Now i feel like im ready to start dating or "getting involved with the opposite sex." I haven't the slightest idea on what to do, or who to pick, etc. A little help would be nice since i dont have any older brothers to take advice from.

[Nikollas]

Treat them as equals and talk to them as you would to your guy friends. Break the unspoken social rules, if there are any, at lunch. Sit with girls and talk to them, even if they're not hot. Sitting at the all boys table (yes, we all know about those ) won't help your situation, and meeting new people at lunch is only a first step in getting out more and being more open.

[Lion]

i think that people veiw dating all wrong. dating is a phase where people are getting to know the opposite sex and seeing what it is about the other sex that they like and dislike. when you date, you get to know about different personalities and different aspects. first you have to get a feel for what type of girl you are looking for and then you can begin your dating quests.

[eidosbd]

It depends what you are looking for


A girl who is outgoing and sporty

Go to the fields and courts


A girl who is intelligent and sophisticated

Go to the library


A girl who knows how to cook and eat

Go to the libarary


well, my point is it really depends who you like and which sort of girl you like.


But perhaps you can widen your scope of girls not only staring eye-boogled at pretty ones, and turn your head 360 degrees at ugly fat ones.


Talk to everyone about everything, and you will soon find that ugly may be pretty, and pretty may turn ugly


best of luck.

[Frodo]

You have a long way to go. Most important part is, don't be afraid of failure. You'll get rejected every so often and this is just part of growing up. But remember to be confident, never supplicate yourself to women, don't kiss-ass either, and be cool.

[tulaka]

try first dating with shy girls. Your experience will grow from quantity to quality.

[Maximus]

you can begin by pretending you only want to be friend with a certain girl, further you can convert it into love.

[tulaka]

When I was in high-school, my problem was that girls liked me too much, and I couldn't get rid of them

[Cold_as_ice]

When I was in high-school, my problem was that girls liked me too much, and I couldn't get rid of them

you must be a lucky guy. But, you probably are exaggerating. All boyz pass through a period when they run after girls and not vice-versa.

[Planetman]

Oh yes, and make sure she doesn't get with you only to write checks

[Cold_as_ice]

Actually, boyz can really motivate their dating by saying they need or can give help in learning certain topics for school.

[mixi]

Actually, boyz can really motivate their dating by saying they need or can give help in learning certain topics for school.

This is too naive

[Cold_as_ice]

Actually, boyz can really motivate their dating by saying they need or can give help in learning certain topics for school.

This is too naive

not at all. It is valuable and it really works for high-school/college students. It is naive for adults, but not for them

[Elis]

I would see right though him, if a boy would try that with me

[tulaka]

your advice, CAI, reminds me of the movie "American pie", when that guy invited his she-classmate for allegedly helping her in history. When she came to him, no history was even mentioned. They were doing the thing

[Cold_as_ice]

College love is so pure. Besides, not much effort should be put for taking a girl out for a date. Young people's mind are free of daily problems and issues and thereby they can focus on their relaitons. There is little chance from her to turn him down.