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[sekopunt_pr]

For the last six months me and my girlfriend have been having trouble talking to each other, something that i thought would never happen as we could talk for hours on end. Ever since she told me about me so called babe side ...(I explode with anger after along time, having not dealt with the problem....i lock her out when am emotional etc)...I have been trying to change my ways, trying to aviod conflict between us but the problem is that she doesn't realise this and keeps saying that i don't to her etc.


I have no idea what to do now....i don't want to say anything that offends her....sometimes I feel like my patience has run out.

[eidosbd]

well actually by having her call you babe, that is her pet name for you. she is not trying to put you down in any way, but it's her way of showing you or letting you know that she thinks you're cute. it's nothing bad and i don't see why you should be offended by it.


but it might be true that it makes you look like a sissy in front of your friends but girls like a man that is sensitive. remember that.

[tulaka]

you see, girls are smarter in psychology, so they can easily distinguish whether a man behaves as a man or as a child. So she might be right.

[Maximus]

Girls get older faster. That's why they want a more serious guy as the time goes by. Forget her and find a younger girl to fit your interests.

[Elis]

Call her baby too, take all this situation as an experiment.

[mixi]

I guess she's just playing with you in a girlish way. Don't take it that serious.

[tulaka]

Well he should take that serious unless he doesn't care about their relationship. He must strat behaving as a gentleman, not as a boy.

[Cold_as_ice]

boyz, didn't you know that girls aged 20-25 prefer dating with grown-up men and not with boys of their age.

[Planetman]

such stressful situation happen. It is like a test for each couple. Only those who can take it positively will find happiness together.

[Maximus]

any couple. earlier or later, faces a crisis. It's normal and will past quickly

[Elis]

Well maybe you're getting to the next step, where fun is second and responsibilities are first

[Cold_as_ice]

I have no idea what responsibilities you are talking about Elis? They are young. Since they are not married, there is no responsibilities at all.

[Planetman]

A couple with no responsibilities will fall apart in a sec

[Cold_as_ice]

A couple with no responsibilities will fall apart in a sec

do you have responsibilities in front of your girlfriend? If you do, then I'm shocked

you'll get old soon

[Elis]

A couple with no responsibilities will fall apart in a sec

do you have responsibilities in front of your girlfriend? If you do, then I'm shocked

you'll get old soon

It's not about getting old, but of keeping it moral.
I don't wanna see my bf hanging around with other girls. This means responsabilities

[tulaka]

Planetman, it's natural. If a couple is in love, no party will cheat each other. So, love mustn't include fear, since this is the opposite of love, and therefore no responsibility should occur in a love relationship.

[Cold_as_ice]

How to improve communication within a relation? Travel, yes, travel! When you and your partner will see new interesting and (if lucky) romantic places, new flames of love will burn inside your heart. Thereby communication won't be late to appear.