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[Shirley Cheadle]

I don't know what to do! I'm not with anyone right now, but I've been best friends with this guy for a little over four years now, and we both want to be more than friends. He's a great guy, very sweet makes me feel good, and loves me too, but he lives miles away and plus he's going even farther this fall for college, I want to be with him and i love him. However about nine months ago I met this other guy thats really great, and he wants to be more than friends also. This guy lives right down the street, But he seems kind of bossy sometimes however I still like him a lot and even think I'm in love with him. I don't know who I want or what to do. I would like to be in a relationship but with who?

[Frodo]

with the first guy, your biggest problem is that he is moving way for college. this almost 90 percent of the time doesn't work. i would just stay friends with him because there is no sense getting into a relationship that will most definately bring about more problems.


the second guy? he is a little bossy but if you can handle it, then give it a try. you have nothing to lose.

[Val Phoenix]

yep for a fact that most long distance relationships dont work. my friend and another friend of mine were sorta seeing each other but the distance between them got them thinking if it was worth it.. it's up to u if u wanna go for the relationship where the distance is a factor or someone who's bossy.

dont be w/ the person u can live w/, but be w/ the person u cant live without

[Nikollas]

Shirley, Make your decision wisely. Be with the one you can't live without with.

[Bill Mortensen]

close your eyes and think of love. the 1st image that pops out: that would be it!

[eidosbd]

How old are you? You have all the time in the world. What's the rush?

[tulaka]

you don't need distant love. Distant love is not a real one. YOu can't control what your partner is doing, maybe he is with another girl.

[Maximus]

sometimes when your partner is far away from you, you begin to miss him a lot. That only strengthens the love.

[Cold_as_ice]

actually I read an article saying that distant love only recover the broken-up couples. It's true. When one is far from the other there is time to think upon the made mistakes and to correct them.

[Elis]

Actually if the there is a space of a couple of months or something between you without seeing each other, then your relation is not going to work out, especially if you start it the moment he will leave

[Cold_as_ice]

you are right Elis. But I was not talking about a period of couple of months. I meant a few weeks.

[tulaka]

certain psychologist indeed recommend for a couple to live separately for a few weeks. Also, social care bodies will advice them to do that if they want divorce.

[Planetman]

Freindship from a guy and a girl is not likley to happen. So if you've been together for so long time, then he has some intentions too.

[Cold_as_ice]

You can as well date with both of them. Why not? One guy will complete the qualities that are missing in the other. That is what usually boys do, so if the world gets more modern, why wouldn't girls do the same thing?