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sekopunt_pr · by **sekopunt_pr** » 07 June 2006

What do you think what is more important looks or character?

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 07 June 2006

Looks are overrated.
My wife is pretty. But its a mistake to marry or get together on the basis of looks.

sekopunt_pr · by **sekopunt_pr** » 08 June 2006

now you tell me!

prozac7674 · by **prozac7674** » 08 June 2006

Oh shut up we both know damn well you didn't go out with me for my looks

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 08 June 2006

Well my wife was quite hot when we got married..
But women tend to put on some pounds with time

She is still very pretty though. especially her face.

Selesta · by **Selesta** » 08 June 2006

The chick was psycho though!
hehehe

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 08 June 2006

See when I asked my wife to marry me, I said this..
I said listen, I want to have children or I wont marry, And If I have children I want them to have a mother at home. If you agree to this, Marry me. If you dont agree with this, Please do not marry me.
Had nothing to do with like or dislike, I was in love, but love is not enough I wanted children desperately.
And I wanted children whose care was not sub contracted to other people.

jenifferka · by **jenifferka** » 08 June 2006

it sounds like you married her womb

eidosbd · by **eidosbd** » 08 June 2006

Hahahahah

Selesta · by **Selesta** » 08 June 2006

Heheh, pulled out his Stegosaurus slugger and knocked her out and took her back to the cave by her hair and said "Ugh! Yoo coook food.."

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 09 June 2006

No I married her, Had she been unable to have kids I would of stayed with her, But the important point was that she had to also want kids whether or not we were capable.
Because I loved her but I also had expectations for marraige.

sekopunt_pr · by **sekopunt_pr** » 09 June 2006

if she were unable, you could have adopted

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 09 June 2006

Its like my first girlfriend when we would talk about marraige she would tell me I would have to babtize my kids in the catholic church.

jenifferka · by **jenifferka** » 09 June 2006

There is nothing like honesty .. but I am surprised you didn't include "I love you" in that proposal

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 12 July 2006

I said I wouldn't do it

Zuban · by **Zuban** » 12 July 2006

I actually think that people should get all that stuff on the table before they get married
I've seen people marry who they each didn't share the same objectives with regard to having kids and they ended up divorced.

Selesta · by **Selesta** » 13 July 2006

"Ugh! You burn food, me get horny long time"

jenifferka · by **jenifferka** » 13 July 2006

Actually, since you felt so strong about it .. that was really the right way to do it. She knew up front what the deal was. You didn't spring it on her later.

Zuban · by **Zuban** » 13 July 2006

It's too big of a thing to leave to "hoping they'll change their minds"

sekopunt_pr · by **sekopunt_pr** » 13 July 2006

I know a guy whose wife didn't want to have kids and he was really pissed

Selesta · by **Selesta** » 13 July 2006

I met my girl at a harley bar, she was a major pot dealer

sekopunt_pr · by **sekopunt_pr** » 13 July 2006

If both say they hae no current desire to have kids, then they might change their minds later

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 16 July 2006

Like I said, I broke up with my first love of 4 years or so over giving my kids to the catholic church which I refused, I was an athesit, I didnt mind her being a catholic and going to church.
But I would not give the Church my kids..
I felt strongly and my girlfriend did not so much object, her mother would of been crushed, she was Ireland born and the Church to her was the difference between hell and heaven

johny-johny · by **johny-johny** » 19 July 2006

Hertikol882, calls his wife fat and only use her as a breeding machine for his satanic offsprings

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 19 July 2006

johny-johny, Well that's the harsh way to look at it

And my own fault.
I was very much in love first and at the time
But I knew what I wanted and I didn't want to argue with her later, I wanted a committment for a committment
I committed myself to her for life
In exchange for her committment to if we could have kids, to not farm out the raising of them to a sub contactor like a Preschool
I see so much destruction from pre schools
We babysit a lot of these kids.

Zuban · by **Zuban** » 21 July 2006

maybe you mean daycare?

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 24 July 2006

Daycare and preschool

Zuban · by **Zuban** » 28 July 2006

Lots of kids go to preschool and it's pretty good for them
Gets them ready for school and they have fun and make friends

Hertikol882 · by **Hertikol882** » 31 July 2006

Of course I studied psychology and specialized in pediatric psychology before I left college.

Zuban · by **Zuban** » 05 August 2006

The studies on the subject of daycare basically say that if the program is good quality, it's very good for the kid
My kids were in a co-op preschool. They loved it

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