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[Nicole Smith]

I work in an office with a lot of men, but there this one particular guy, and I want to know if he is flirting with me or like me or something. The funny thing is that he is married, but he doesnt sound happy, I gave him my high school pen and since then he has it in his pocket everyday and he said one day when we were talking that the first time he saw me se stared at me. He is always telling me jokes about our boss and stuff. so please tell me what you think. Am I overreacting.

[eidosbd]

haha just be straight up and ask him out to cruz some time. it will definatly take him by surprize.

[sekopunt_pr]

you gotta remember... he's married... he has a chick... dont be the one that's to blame if somehting happens to their relationship. he might be just looking for something to play w/ on the side right now. i dunno it's purely up to u. k bye...

[ShowMustGoOn]

Remember, you can be his best friend though he is married. Having a affair is out of the question and not wise. I wish you good luck.

[Frodo]

it would suck spoiling a relationship, not talking about a marriage

[Shirley Cheadle]

No, you're not. Just corner him in his office and f*censored*k his brains out.

[tulaka]

He might like you Nicole, why not? You must be a nice young girl, and in an environment full of men, he should search for a girlish shelter.

[Maximus]

Nicole, you're not exaggerating. He does like you. The things he does is the first sign of that. Ask him directly, and see what he'll answer.

[Elis]

This does not really mean that he likes you. Maybe he is a very friendly person. Although the thing that he mentioned that he stared at you on your first approach and the thing with the pen, could mean something…

[tulaka]

of course it means something. He is physically attracted by her. HE WANTS HER, he's a stud, and that's normal!

[Cold_as_ice]

why do you call him a stud? I believe in love, and there should be somewhere in this world normal guys that want normal relation.

[Planetman]

That is some kind of situation you don't wanna have... with the married thing... office friendship..ohhh Good luck to you

[Maximus]

that is the reason I will not allow my future wife to work in offices!

[Elis]

So what are you going to do? Will you lock her or day long in your house?

[Cold_as_ice]

Max, you won't be able to control your wife. Unless you place a tiny video cam inside her coat's button.

[Planetman]

Remove her ice and place surveliance cameras, it will be better

[tulaka]

well this will control only inside rooms, not outside. A tiny camera to be placed into a button is quite expensive.

[Elis]

Not that expensive when it comes to the one we love

[tulaka]

What if he notices that camera? If I did, I would definitely break up. I don't like when girls follow and control every step I make. I doubt any men would approve that.

[Maximus]

Know if your friend is flirting with you: watch carefully his eyes! Women should able detect at once men's wishes. Usually the men who are in love or try to show special attention to a girl, they behave unproperly and it's easily noticeable.

[Guest]

Why don't you ask him to go for a drink?

[barcelonaar]

I worked with a guy who was married too. He allways flirted with me and finally I talk to him because I feel uncomfortable working with him.

[Maximus]

Did he stopped flirting with you? I doubt, he probably retired. Right?

[Cold_as_ice]

Let me offer you some statistics. Every year, about 30% of women had the occassion to be sexually harassed at their office workplaces. This refers to USA. I doubt Europe is far from this rate.