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[Maximus]

When I was 16 years old, it was for the first time when I fell in love. The sky seemed to be so blue, the trees - so green, the sun - so bright, that I couldn't and didn't see anybody around me but my girlfriend. My first love changed me, I remember starting to think different than before. It somehow made me grow-up ten times faster.
What was your first love experience?

[Cold_as_ice]

I was 17 when I first time fell in love seriously with a guy. Actually, I should call him a man, that's because he was 12 years elder than me. Our love did not succeed because I couldn't date with him freely. My parents found out about him and forbidded me to ever see him again... I would like to meet him again, but I can't, he's gone to another country and hardly possible will return

[barcelonaar]

Whe I was 15 I knew a boy in Internet. He lived very far from me, but he took a plane to know me. We had a beautiful relationship for 5 years, but then it finished. Still today we are very good friends

[Maximus]

5 years is a very long dating term. Why didn't you get marry? The fact he took the plane to know you means he really cared about you.

[barcelonaar]

Whe were too young! We wanted to experience with other people... I know 5 years is a long time! Now I'm 26 and I don't know what will happen in the future... RIghtn now I have a beautiful relationship with a very special guy. True love!

[tulaka]

That's nice. You're grown up now and can afford to convert your relations into something more, like marriage. Keep your relations tight and love each other.

[Maximus]

Today, the youth should be supervised by adults. They are often doing wrong things and they start a grown-up life since a very young age. I believe girls should be prohibited to date until they are 14-15.

[tulaka]

why do you think this way max? A girl can even start dating at 12 years. You are probably concerned abut the sexual behaviour. Well it's another talk. It all depends on education.

[Maximus]

I would not allow my daugher date early. I understand though this will make hher nervous and hate parents.
Just find the golden middle

[tulaka]

For the first dates of your daughter, you can hire a special detective who could follow the first, let's say 3-4 dates. After, if everything's OK, you can let her date further.

[tulaka]

I wouldn't like to date with a girl, the parents of whom are permanently watching us. I would try to talk to the parents, first.