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[johny-johny]

Ok... here's an interesting question. There is one girl whom I like, and she reciprocates that feeling. But she's kinda chubby/fat.


Now the ego comes into play. What will my friends think of me? A guy who likes fat chicks? She's not large, just chubby. But she's got a great personality etc. This is the biggest obstacle... Comments?

[Selesta]

nevermind what your friends will think. if they are really your friends they won't really care. they might tease you about it, but as long as you're happy, they will side with you.

[jenifferka]

Love is something between 2 people. Ego is something which is totally irrelevant to love... i mean, would u go out with an ultimate bimbo just to impress your friends?

that would be sad, mighty sad...

[Zuban]

first of all.. why would u care what ur friends think? looks arent everything. friends are supposed to accept you for u and if you like that girl, they should accept her too unless she treats you like shit or something. but other than that, they should be fine w/ it. if they're not, they're not accepting who you are. plus, looks change, but personality pretty much stays the same. it's what inside that is the true beauty.

[Selesta]

haha easy for say comming from someone that is hardly single yeah?? lol.

[Zuban]

shiet i've been single for a while already... im such a dork. no one likes Zuban can someone give me a hug ??? nah hehe.

[tulaka]

I wouldn't deal with chubby girls. I had one and I remember trying to avoid crowds. We had no serious relations, it was just a little adventure.

[Maximus]

Chobby girls is ok. I find them sexy, since they really have a good shape for making your senses work at full capacity!

[tulaka]

Lucky you Maximus. I think it's vice versa, fat girls kill your senses

[Cold_as_ice]

I have a perfect shape, but I have a lot of she-friends who are chubby. They are so cool, believe me, shape is not the things that really matters.

[Planetman]

chubby, i repeat chubby, not fat are sexy, as maximus said, they have the true shapes

[mixi]

I don't think you know what are you talking, pall

[Cold_as_ice]

Mixi, why are you thinking in that stereotyped way? Try dating with a chubby girl. They definitely are not worse than other girls.

[Planetman]

He is afraid of getting toasted in one night only

[tulaka]

It doesn't look fine when a girl is bigger than a man. So, if she's fat, he should also be fat, to me. Otherwise he wouldn't be considered the strong party in their relations.

[Elis]

I don't think the weight determines who is the leader.

[tulaka]

I don't think the weight determines who is the leader.

If my girlfriend was "bigger" than me, I would avoid appearing in front of other eyes. I guess boys would laugh at me. It would cause me stress and discomfort.

[Cold_as_ice]

I sometimes envy chubby girls because they have a nice bot. I am so slim, I'm not saying that my bot is not nice, but it's small while men like round and big