Here are some rules you can follow if you want to maintain and attract others attention and love:
1) Try never to criticize people. Critics is dangerous even if it's a deserved one.
2) Try to challenge others' enthusiasm and don't be greedy at praising others, since everybody wanna feel pleasant.
3) Try to understand what others like and discuss this during your talk to them
4) Be interested in others instead of making others being interested in you
5) Feel pleasure from discussions with people, if you want that person to feel pleasant while talking with you.
6) During your dialogue to someone, try to pay maximum attention. Good orators like good listeners.
7) Be polite, whatever happens.
Don't argue, even if you're right. Try to understand that even if you win the dispute, your interlocutor won't recognize this inside his mind and will take a negative attitude towards you.
9) If you give advices, try to make it in a way that people feel it's their own idea. Nobody likes feeling others' superiority.
10) If you're not right, admit it. Your self-respect will suffer a little bit, but nobody will watch you with anger.
11) Be patient against others. Nobody's perfect.
12) Try to feel yourself inside your interlocutor's skin and see things the way he does.
13) Sympathize with others in their sorrows. But don't exaggerate
