| The art of making complements
Postby Steven on Yesterday, 23:27
The main step towards a close contact with a girl, is certainly the ability of making a good complement. If it's done correctly, you can achieve many things.
Women's weakness for complements is explained by the fact that complements satisfy their necessity, as it confirms their beauty. Receiving complements from men is particularly pleasant, as she feels herself a real woman.
Of course the the matter concerns nice, qualitative complements, and not childish jokes.
What is a complement?
A complement is a little exaggeration of the reality, which your interlocutor wants to see inside himself. What makes a complement be different from flattery is the little exaggeration. The flatterer exaggerates his interlocutor's traits. Compare: "This colour fits you great" (complement) and "You're the most beautiful girl" (flattery). The flattery sounds rougher and has bigger chances to be denied. However, there are people who like flatteries as well. But generally, it's rare.
That's why the complement is more significant, and there are no girls who hate complements.
The most effective complement
The most effective complement is a complement on the background of anti-complement towards yourself, since the contrast is felt closer. Don't be afraid of humble yourself. |
